Twenty lessons from twenty years of life

 Advice from a 20 yr old...

1. It's just not humanly possible to have it ALL figured out.
2. You can plan but remember that you cannot predict the future.
3. Leave the first sign of disrespect, animosity, or odd character. 
4. Learn how to be content with the possibility of living life alone; if you can't be by yourself you can't really be with anyone.
   
5. Leave you hometown even if it's just an hour away, even if it's just for a year. No one says you have to stay gone. 
6. If you have the support system, use it, that is a privilege. 
7. You do not have to for relationships with people just because they are family. 
8. If you don't have a way, FIND A WAY. 
9. Do not idolize people. Especially celebrities guys c'mon. 
10. Dream big but dream realistically because chasing a fantasy it just as bad as chasing nothing. 
11. Please be yourself while your still young. Wear that outfit, do that makeup look, try that hobby, try that aesthetic. 
12. It pays nothing to be kind to people. Even when they are not kind in return that says more about their character, not yours. 
13. 
    People will label you however they want no matter what you say or do and that has nothing to do with you at the end of the day as long as you know you're not doing anything wrong. 
14. Forgive them even when you're still hurt, even when you know they're not sorry because, that un-forgiveness is only hurting you. 
15. Take your self respect seriously. Do not things you know you would look at someone else differently for doing. 
16. Learn to be okay with being misunderstood because there are people who are hellbent on doing so. 
17. Things like music taste, clothes, etc have absolutely nothing to do with who you truly are at the end of the day. 
18. Enjoy the material but remember they are just materials. 
19. Work hard for the life you want. otherwise don't complain if you're not where you want to be. 
20. At some point you cannot blame you life circumstances and problems on why your life is the way it is. Eventually because YOUR responsibility to pick yourself up and give yourself a good life. Easier said then done but not impossible. 
21. Bonus: A relationship should NOT be the main desire of your life and to depend on a partener to give you the life you want is foolish. 

I hope some of these helped you. If you have anything to add feel free to comment! 

Thanks for reading! 🌸

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